“Niligawan – Nagantay – Naging mag on – Sumaya – Nagaway – Nag-break – Nagkabalikan”
Love is not all smiles and surprises, somehow, there would come a time that you and your partner will face difficulties and trials. Facebook user Joshua Salud shared a lengthy post about thriving love, according to his one year relationship with current boyfriend.
Experiences are the best encouragements for Joshua. He shared that as lovers, they’ve went many ups and downs despite being just more than a year old.
Being that they are in a gay relationship, the couple had a hard time breaking free from discrimination.
“Para sa mga Bi-sexual couple diyan. Gusto ko lang malaman niyo na, Hindi minamadali ang pagpasok sa isang relasyon. Hindi minamadali ang pagpapalegal sa mga magulang on both sides. Dadating sa point na feeling niyo ayaw niyo na, feeling niyo pagod na kayo, feeling niyo hindi na nagwowork yung relasyon kasi ON and OFF kayo.”
On his post, Joshua stressed the importance of persevering. He said that couples should refrain from breaking up so easily just because of a petty fight. One will regret in the end, he said.
Joshua admitted that because of their hardships, he was tempted to look for someone else. For countless times, he reminded his friends and followers to NEVER give up on their other half because it will all be worth it in the end.
“Kung ano yung negative na iniisip niyo, WAG niyong gagawin. Kung may balak at desisyon kayong makipaghiwalay, lalong “WAG!” 😀 Kasi sayang yung segundo, menuto, oras, araw, buwan at taon na nagkasama kayo.”
By the end of the post, Joshua greeted his beloved boyfriend a happy monthsary with a picture of them inserted. He apologized for all his shortcomings and promised that he will be stronger this time around.
Joshua’s future plans with partner
On an exclusive interview, Joshua told Dailypedia about his dream for their relationship.
“Magkatabi sa iisang bubong, magkayakap tuwing gabi at masayang magkasama gumawa ng mga bagay na bago sa amin..mag aampon ng anak..magpapakasal kami sa Central Park dahil pareho naming pangarap.”
He also shared how they faced difficulties every now and then, being a same-sex couple.
“Madaming hindi nakakaalam ng relationship namen lalo na mga friends niya at magulang niya.”
Still, Joshua believes that everything happens and will happen for reason. He’s excited for the future, though and certain that they will remain together.
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