Famous Facebook couple Jelai Andres and Jon Gutierrez’s marriage is currently on the rocks, due to the latter’s cheating controversy, and netizens bear witness to the alleged ‘third-party’ angle via Andres’ cryptic posts that allude to her husband’s infidelity.
In a series of posts by Andres, she insinuates to the public that she is troubled and sad these days: “Once a cheater, always a repeater.”
In a Facebook live feed that followed, Andres called out Toni Fowler, an R Breezy girl and Internet-famous personality, as the third party in the extra-marital scenario.
The former FHM model admitted that she and her husband, a member of Ex-Battalion, are not presently okay, ever since news broke out that Fowler and Gutierrez had been meeting secretly.
Andres clarified that she was only standing up for herself and was not defending her husband’s actions.
It seemed to be a case of déjà vu, as the same story of cheating circulated on social media two years ago when #TeamJolai have not tied the knot. Andres and Fowler exchanged heated quips online, with the latter revealing Gutierrez was secretly texting her. But then the narrative turned bloody when the R Breezy babe, who was heavily bashed by netizens for breaking up the couple, posted pictures of her ‘committing suicide.’
Andres pointed out in her video that Fowler seduced her then boyfriend Gutierrez back in 2016, with a steamy video Fowler allegedly sent to Gutierrez.
She was not convinced that Fowler had no idea that she and Gutierrez were together then. Andres also addressed the issue thrown at her that she hurt Gutierrez.
Toni Fowler, on the other hand, aired her side of the story amidst online backlash, after being dragged to the #TeamJolai issue. She clarified that Gutierrez fooled her and made her believe that he was already separated with then girlfriend Andres in 2016.
According to her, she kept silent because the rapper made her promise not to reveal their relationship.
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Gutierrez also allegedly disclosed to Fowler that he stayed with Andres just for their endorsements and commitments. Fowler also called out songwriter and rapper Makagago and denied his claims that something intimate happened between her and Gutierrez just last month.
She explained that she borrowed money from Gutierrez’s Ex-B co-member but was shocked to learn that she was meeting up with Gutierrez. She also remarked that everything she said on Facebook live has proof and she will be revealing screenshots of her conversations with Gutierrez at a later time.
In related development, Makagago revealed Gutierrez’s alleged affair with different women, which according to him were supported with evidences.
It was reminiscent of a Facebook post that one netizen collated, showing Gutierrez talking to several women online.
Do you ever wonder what makes a person more susceptible to cheating?
Based on a new research carried out by Harvard researchers, there’s a quality that could help you predict whether your partner will be unfaithful. As you may have guessed, physical attractiveness is one of the key factors that can indicate a tendency to stray.
In the study, social psychologist Christine Ma-Kellams and her team looked into two study groups to determine the connection between physical attractiveness and the duration of the romantic relationship.
The team of researchers gave the first group the impression that they were particularly good-looking, while the other group was made to feel the opposite. Afterwards, both groups were shown photos of physically unattractive people who were about the same age as they were.
They were then asked to evaluate the people in the photos based on attractiveness. Meanwhile, those in the unattractive group had the tendency to give lower attractiveness ratings.
Moreover, the study also indicated that people who were regarded as good-looking when they graduated from high school had been through more breakups and divorces in the next 10 to 20 years compared to unattractive peers.
Results revealed that those in the good-looking group have higher attractiveness ratings.
So what could be the reason behind this?
Researchers offered an explanation you might have guessed by now.
“The reason, you might guess, is simple: Pretty people are seen as desirable not just by you, but by everyone else. Sporting a beautiful partner on your arm is like waving a biscuit in front of your dog — almost too irresistible to pass up. As stated in research that Ma-Kellams et al. cite, ‘More physically attractive individuals are more frequently the target of poaching attempts’”, Psychology Today writes.
Aside from physical attractiveness, the level of satisfaction with the current relationship is also a major factor in predicting unfaithfulness.
Long-distance relationship is one of the toughest struggles a couple can experience.
Most couples are able to survive the distance by keeping up their communication whenever they have free time despite of the time differences of their places. However, not all couples endure this kind of obstacle.
Some of them can’t bear not spending time with their loved ones in person, or not being able to reach their other half due to various circumstances. This matter can cause the other party to be all sad and gloomy, or worse, find someone else – who’s closer to them.
Unfortunately, infidelity is one of the reasons why couples in long distance relationships breakup.
One of the women who had just gone through a breakup is a Pinay model named Clarise Perez.
She broke up with her partner after realizing that the guy has been lying and cheating on her.
Perez posted this story on her Facebook account to vent out when she finally had enough after receiving pictures of her ex-boyfriend on a bed with another woman – which Perez received directly from the Russian woman who is the same third party in their relationship.
“PATRICK SANTOS MAGTANONG (Kcirtap Gnntgm)
I WILL NOT MAKE THIS TOO LONG. I HAVE BEEN WITH YOU FOR TWO YEARS IN GOOD FAITH, AND THIS IS THE MOST PATHETIC WAY TO LOSE ME, AND YOU DESERVE IT.”
She had been in a relationship with Magtanong for two years, and never did anything that could ruin what they had. However, the guy had to leave the country to work abroad as an OFW – which Perez gladly accepted despite knowing that they will have to be a long-distance couple for a while.
“YOU LIED TO ME ABOUT YOUR JOB. YOU LEFT FOR MACAU TO BE A HOSTO 3 MONTHS AGO (MALE COUNTERPART OF HOSTESS) ME AND YOUR FAMILY HAD NO CLUE UNTIL SOMEONE TOLD ME. DON’T WORRY, I HAVE KNOWN IT FOR A WHILE AND SAID NOTHING. I STILL TRIED TO UNDERSTAND YOUR POSITION, I STILL LOVED YOU LIKE NOTHING CHANGED, WE EVEN CELEBRATED OUR 2ND ANNIVERSARY, LONG-DISTANCE STYLE. “
Perez held on to what he said and promised her. She even remained faithful to him even after she discovered what his real overseas job was.
“SABI MO, WAG AKONG BIBITAW NO MATTER WHAT. WELL, JOKE’S ON ME SO FEELING MO YOU’RE THE ONLY ONE ALLOWED TO HAVE FUN? I DON’T GET MAD, I GET EVEN. YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOUR COUGAR TO KEEP YOUR PHOTOS PRIVATE, KASI NAKAKAHIYA NAMAN BAKA MAKITA NG GIRLFRIEND MO/FAMILY MO WHO’S FAITHFULLY WAITING FOR YOU TO COME HOME.”
She wasn’t going to let it all out, but the Russian woman who was also having a relationship with Magtanong provoked her to do so by sending their photos in bed.
“TAPOS ANO? YOUR COUGAR GIRLFRIEND WILL SEND ME PHOTOS OF YOU TWO IN BED? PA-THE-TIC. YOU THINK YOU’RE PROUD? SIGE, I’LL TELL EVERYONE.”
“I WILL LEAVE YOU WITH THAT WOMAN WHO PATRONIZES CHEAP BOYS LIKE YOU. I DON’T EVEN NEED TO ENUMERATE REASONS WHY I THINK YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING, UNGRATEFUL, AND AN ABSOLUTE LEECH. EW. GANYAN KATINDI YUNG PANGANGAILANGAN MO, I EVEN SUSTAINED YOU TO SOME EXTENT, KALALAKI MONG TAO. AS IF HOSTO IS THE ONLY JOB YOU’RE QUALIFIED FOR, I’M SORRY BUT IT’S TRUE. IT’S NOT LIKE YOU WERE OUT OF OPTIONS. BUT STILL
IF YOU CAN’T STAY FAITHFUL, DON’T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. IT’S THAT SIMPLE.”
Perez expressed her anger because of what happened. She would have accepted his job, but being unfaithful to their relationship is not something she would turn a blind eye on – no matter how much she loves him.
“AND TO THE IDIOT RUSSIAN GIRL WHO HAD THE AUDACITY TO GET HER ITCH SCRATCHED BY SOMEONE TAKEN, HE WILL DO THE SAME THING TO YOU. GOOD LUCK, MY BOYFRIEND HAS NO CONCEPT OF LOYALTY.
HERE ARE PHOTOS OF YOU AND YOUR NEW ALBINO COUGAR GIRLFRIEND. HELL HATH NO FURY THAN A WOMAN SCORNED.”
Moreover, the Russian woman began posting her pictures about Magtanong on her Instagram account.
It was indeed a terrible experience to have your loved one to cheat on you after everything you had gone through. However, it is better to find out about it early than to discover the infidelity when the couple had already built a family of their own.
Clearly, it wasn’t Perez’ loss, but the other way around. Someday, Perez will find a man who will treat her better and will value everything about her.
What are your thoughts about her ex-boyfriend and his other woman who had the guts to send their pictures to Perez? Share your opinions below!
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Karma has a unique way of giving people what they deserve after doing something nasty, which is why most people warn each other saying, “Ingat ka, mabilis ang karma.”
Despite of constant warnings given to people, there are just some persons who think that karma might not be a real thing after all.
A woman in Kenya met a lover in Explor-Inn and decided to hit it off with him. In the middle of their steamy action, her lover cried in pain when he realized that his private part got stuck inside her. They had tried to remove themselves from the horrible situation, but failed as it was too painful for them each time they try to separate.
Desperate enough to detach themselves from each other, the couple decided to call out for help from the hotel personnel. Due to their situation, the cheating couple had no choice but to disclose that the woman was apparently married to someone else. It was a shock for the staffs, but decided to get medical assistance for them anyway.
The whole situation got worse when the residents saw the couple being brought out through a wheel chair. The woman had her face covered but the lover’s face was exposed. Someone from the crowd took a video – which explains why it had circulated online.
However, the cheating couple was saved from further humiliation since they haven’t been identified in the reports. According to The Sun, local media outlets guessed that the woman’s husband might have used a magic potion called “magun” on her.
Incidents like this only go to show how quick karma works. In the couple’s case, karma slapped them right when they were in the middle of their indecent act.
To sum it up, it would be a great idea if a person would think a lot of times before doing wrong things. Aside from the fact that it is not right, karma is just around the corner, watching you.
“Please make sure na TOTOONG ASAWA ka bago ka mag post niyan.” (Please make sure you’re the legal wife before you post that.)
Last June 26, Facebook user Gel Sandoval posted a Day 1 picture of the Love Your Spouse Challenge, a craze currently doing the rounds on social media. But the picture wasn’t hers. It was posted, apparently, by her husband’s “other woman.”
“Hoy babaeng pugita! May dalawang anak ka na! Dapat alam mo kung gaano kahirap magpalaki ng bata!” (Hey, octopus lady! You have two kids, so you should know how hard it is to raise them!) Sandoval ranted. “Pakisabi dyan sa ASAWA KO na magbigay ng suporta sa ANAK NAMIN… Sayong sayo na yang hayop na yan pero wag na wag niyang kakalimutan ang responsibilidad niya sa ANAK NAMIN!” (Please tell my husband to give child support. You can have that scumbag, but he shouldn’t ever neglect his responsibilities to our child!)
Friends of Sandoval applauded the post and replied with words of encouragement and support. “Go go gurl,” said Jopay Timbang, “strong proof evidence n yan… s court n dinadala yan pra may paglagyan.” (This is strong evidence that should be brought to court.)
“Sinama pa si god,” (They even put God into the picture.) exclaimed Mariam Antonio. “Dumadami may higad ngaun. Ang kakati nila!” (It seems like we have a hairy caterpillar infestation, with how all these people are scratching their itch!)
As of this writing, the post had been shared over 4,000 times and it seems Sandoval’s ex-husband is planning to take her to court for the seemingly damaging post. “Kasama daw po kayong lahat na nag comment at nag share nito sa demanda!” (They said everyone who commented on and shared this post will be taken to court.) announced Sandoval in one of the replies. “Sustento nga sa bata wala siyang maibigay eh, magde demanda pa siya ng 600+ na tao?” (But if he can’t even send financial support to my child, how can he afford to bring up charges against 600+ people?)
She further added that “Now nagagalit sila dahil nagva viral yung post. Eh proud naman silang dalawa na ipakita sa mundo yung relationship nila diba? Edi ayan. Nakatulong pa nga ata ako sa pag sikat nila eh.” (Now they’re angry over the post going viral, but aren’t they proudly flaunting their relationship? So there. I even aided them in becoming famous.)
The aim of the Love Your Spouse Challenge is to promote the sanctity of traditional marriage, “to celebrate love and keep Jesus Christ as a center of marriage.” If Sandoval’s allegations are true, then her rival, it seems, had missed the point.
* Insults in Tagalog are translated to literal English equivalents.
Infidelity. It may come in many forms, but it all ends up hurting the people involved.
There are many reasons why people cheat. It could be because they have problems in their relationships, or like what Holly LaBarbera, a licensed marriage and family therapist, told Medical Daily, “Sometimes one partner meets someone with whom they fall in love. Sometimes one partner is unhappy themselves and a new relationship makes them feel alive and special in a way they haven’t felt in a long time. Sometimes cheating has nothing to do with the other partner.”
Is it true that once a cheater, always a cheater? This question was posted on reddit and gained quite a number of reactions from netizens. Let’s look at the top 10 answers by men and women who had cheated, those who learned their lesson the hard way, and those who haven’t and will never cheat (as they claim).
1. “I don’t think a man would cheat if they were in a relationship with someone they were really in love with. I think people cheat because their feelings are not strong enough for their significant other.”
Although a few agreed to this, others did not. One reader even said that once you decide you want to cheat, “there are a million excuses and 3.5 million people to do it with.” Love doesn’t matter that much.
Wondering if your significant other will cheat on you down the road? Look to his or her family history to find the answer.
A recent study conducted by Texas Tech and the University of Nevada seems to verify previous research findings that the propensity to cheat may be passed down from parent to child. Over 300 students were surveyed in an effort to establish a connection between the parents’ infidelity and the respondents’ own future likelihood, or prior act, of cheating.
44% of the participants said they had cheated and also had unfaithful parents. While only 22% professed fidelity to their S.O.’s (significant other) despite having unfaithful parents. On a side note, the study also found that fathers tended to cheat more compared to mothers.
Prior studies showing links between infidelity and genetics include one dated 2008 by the Karolinska Institute of Sweden pointing to a specific gene, allele 334, a genetic variation in males that interferes with the brain’s processing of the neurochemical vasopressin, associated with monogamous pair bonding.
Another study is dated 2011, when Czech anthropologists proposed that the Kennedy brothers’ (Robert, John, and Ted) predilection for extramarital affairs stems from their own father’s fondness for romantic encounters outside of marriage.
So the next time you get caught cheating, you can now claim it’s all because of science or genetics. Of course, it’s always up to the other person to buy the explanation, though.