Relationships between people with big age gaps are not viewed positively. But this never stopped a 13-year-old Indonesian high school student from falling in love with her then 27-year-old teacher.
Vinida Virginia got into a relationship with her teacher Erwin Pangalia during her secondary days, and now that she finally hit the age of 20, they decided to tie the knot.
Their love story started in SMP Negeri 2 Tenga in Jakarta when Vinida noticed Erwin while writing on the blackboard of another class. She said that his broad shoulders got her attention.
She bumped into him again during her extra curricular activity while he was engrossed with his work. Seeing him working hard made her decide to pursue him because of her fondness on him.
It was like Vinida’s prayers were answered when Erwin got assigned to teach the class she’s in. But she had competition as it turned out that she was not the only one that had a crush on the male instructor.
In order to stand out, she often stayed late in school and attended Q&A sessions with him and after a while, he finally felt the same toward his student. They started dating in 2011.
They admitted that they did get a lot of negative comments, criticizing their 14-year age gap. Others said that it was highly immoral for a teacher to fall in love with his student.
The couple proved that their love isn’t shallow as after seven years, they finally got married!
Nowadays, we may hear students confess of a dream of having a relationship with their handsome / gorgeous teacher. For this instance, a young boy’s dream came true. But, their affair never lasted any more longer as her dream teacher was imprisoned.
Stephanie Seabury, 22, an English teacher at Fred Fifer III Middle School in Camden, Kent County, was arrested for having a sexual relationship with her student.
According to a report, Seabury started romancing her student, a 13-year old boy when she started teaching in the said school. The affair was dragged into the light as the young boy bragged to his friends about the relationship. Eventually, school officials learned of the teacher’s pedophilic behavior and called the police for surveillance.
Consequently, the police seized surveillance footage and caught the teacher leaving the school with the young boy in her car. According to the police, Seabury took the boy to her apartment where they had numerous sexual encounters. Also, it was discovered that the two exchanged explicit phone messages and photographs.
Seabury was filed with sexual abuse against her by an authority, with a bond set at $40,000 – ending her English teaching career.